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buy canada goose jacket cheap And like you, I’m happy she was comfortable voicing these ideas with me and it also made me wonder if others had/have similar concerns but don’t feel like they can say canada goose jacket outlet sale anythingOH MY GOSH I’M SO HAPPY YOU MENTIONED WEDDING DAY STUFF! I wasn’t going to bring this up canada goose jacket outlet here because it’s a lot to type out, but before I started T I was invited to be a part of her wedding party and she gave me the invitation and immediately said that I could wear a suit (bc she knew that’s what I’d be comfortable in before even coming out as trans to her). When I started T I told her and said I might look different by the time your wedding happens so if you want to change your mind in my role that’s okay. She said it was all fine. I posted a video of my voice change this past week and after seeing that and realizing that I’m actually making tangible physical changes she is now uncomfortable with me being in the wedding party in that role. Which I can understand because she offered it to me under the pretense I’d be a female in a suit. But I find it ironic that it’s not uncomfortable for her to canada goose outlet online store review have me be the canada goose outlet online uk solo person in a suit and guy’s haircut with a feminine face, but now that I’m making my face match my outfit it’s uncomfortable. Which in a way is validating because it means she’d view my role as a more traditional “male best friend of the bride role” like usher or something. But she also expressed what your friend did, about bridal shower activities. And my response was basically “Hey now, I’ve tagged along to all of our “girlfriend” activities up to this point and although everyone in the group knew it wasn’t my style it canada goose vest outlet was never awkward for me to be there.” buy canada goose jacket cheap

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buy canada goose jacket cheap And that’s awesome about the suit though! Sadly I’m in a wedding this summer and I’m not out to the bride yet, and despite being very gender nonconforming (at least when read as female) I am still wearing a dress. But now at least I’ve got this friend now to joke my way through the day with me. buy canada goose jacket cheap

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